19 February 2019
Kwak Eura (right) and Choi Jung-yoon arrange products at their sex toy shop in Seoul. Photo: Reuters
Kwak Eura (right) and Choi Jung-yoon arrange products at their sex toy shop in Seoul. Photo: Reuters

S Korean sex shop aims to shatter taboos for women

In conservative South Korea, two women are trying to shatter taboos about sex.

Choi Jung-yoon and Kwak Eura have opened “Pleasure Lab” in Seoul, a shop selling sex toys and related items targeted at women.

They hope to break social silence about women and sexuality, while teaching customers how to use items such as vibrators, Reuters reports.

“You can call us activists, and we think we are curators,” said Choi, 30, a former journalist who spent her teenage and college years in the United States.

“The way to change the world can be doing campaigns or fighting outside, which are important, but we think selling sex toys in a bright atmosphere with a smile here can be our own battle and own campaign,” she told the news agency in an interview.

The shop, which opened in August in a building that is also home to two churches in a residential part of Seoul, has white walls which highlight the products, many of them in pink or purple, and holds public workshops on sexual health.

It is featuring festive “Merry Clitorismas” gift boxes that contain vibrators and lingerie.

Traditionally, adult shops in South Korea are targeted towards men.

South Korea is a Confucian, male-dominated society that is undergoing a transition when it comes to gender roles.

The pair said there is still a stigma when it comes to women’s sexual empowerment, or women talking about sex.

The country ranks 115th out of 145 in the World Economic Forum’s index of gender equality, and a massive beauty and plastic surgery industry tends to reinforce traditional perceptions of the feminine ideal.

“In pop culture, like TV shows and movies, heterosexual males are still the ones who have say and sexual independence,” said Choi.

“Women who speak out for their sexual life are socially stigmatized, called whores or sluts,” she said.

The shop generates monthly turnover of about 20 million won (US$17,000), including online sales. Most customers are women in their 20s and 30s.

“We are not a generation who grew up getting proper sexual education,” said Kwak, 28, who is bisexual and worked as a nurse for three years.

“We have been sheepish about this … It may sound grandiose, but we think we are really pioneers.”

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